TO TRULY ENJOY ADULTHOOD:
1. Actively seek out new interests regularly. Refrain from allowing your life to become stagnant, especially in your free time. Prioritize your joy.
2. Search for likeminded people. Debunk the myth that people don’t “make friends” as adults. They can, and do. It makes the journey more blissful.
3. Travel as frequently as you can, even if it’s just a neighboring town/city/state. Do it as a means of constantly reminding yourself the world is bigger than your line of sight. Remind yourself often.
4. Change. In as many areas as you can. Not because what you have is deficient or inadequate, but because life works best when you’re not too strictly attached. Set health/financial/social goals, and work to achieve them. Thrive in your daily life.
5. Prioritize friendships as much as romantic relationships, never allow yourself to feel as though you will crumble in the absence of a lover.
6. Give yourself as many options as you can. Always keep it at the back of your mind that you hold the ability to choose, and you will never settle.
Also, create a long lasting and healthy relationship with ourselves.
At the end of the day, the relationship that's most present in our lifes is the one we have with ourselves, with our mind and our heart.
Create a relationship with yourself based on understanding, self-love, inner peace, perseverance, perspective, values and morals, curiosity, drive, passion.
The higher the quality of that relationship, the more balanced will your life be despite all the ups and downs of life.